Nearly twenty-five years ago
Teresa and I welcomed a new addition to our little family. He was cute and cuddly and all the other kids
were so excited to have him with us. Despite
the fact that he was late and disturbed our holiday celebrations, we have grown
to love him as our little “Christmas Baby.”
Fast forward to today!! Joel is now a grown man and has decided it is
time to ‘tie-the-knot’ with a BEAUTIFUL young lady, Paula Jean Campbell. He is so excited and we are pleased that he
has chosen so well in this most important decision of life.
Joel and Paula on an excursion |
This is a contemplative time for me
(and probably Teresa). We have been ‘empty-nesters’ for some time
but we are now on the path to becoming parents of completely independent children. Each has made the leap that begins their individual
family life and, in their own way, they have indicated that it is time for Mom
and Dad to let go.
It is what we are here on earth
to do… family
is our major purpose in life. The work
of parenting and 'family making' cannot be done effectively with too much shadow
leadership. Like our Heavenly Father, we
have to allow others to learn and grow by doing the hard things.
But it is sure difficult to release
what has been such a wonderful experience.
We miss having little ones in our
home (OK, we get the grandkids some but that’s not
quite the same). It is a
difficult realization that we are now just background noise to our children as
they move forward, raising up the next generation. There is no more ‘Primary Responsibility’ for
us in the welfare of the new little ones.
Anyways, back to Joel.
Don't they look happy!! |
Paula and Joel are being married next
week on the 20th and we couldn’t be happier. It is a bit unusual to have another Paula but
we are working on how to address that issue (PJ,
Paula Jr., Joel’s Paula?). It is such
a wonderful dilemma to have.
Paula's wedding picture |
I am most impressed that Joel’s
siblings have been extremely supportive of everything that needs to be
done. Our children have grown into such
good friends and that brings us great joy.
I credit their mother and her immense efforts to keep us all
connected. She is truly the glue that
holds us all together. Thanks Teresa.
As I review this post, I realize
that I am all over the place – please make allowances for an excited and feeble
dad.
Thanks.
I have included a few
pictures of the happy couple and hope that you will celebrate with us and let
them know how much you love them.