The other night Teresa and Joel
watched one of the X-Men movies – I think it was called the Last Stand. In it, a scientist had developed an injection
that would remove whatever powers the mutants had and make them like normal
people.
We have often commented that some
of our family’s quirks might be similar to a mutant power. For instance, most of us have real issues
with talking on the phone (hurray for text-messaging). We also have several
who seem to have food phobias for no apparent reason – if you haven’t tried the
food, why should it hold terror (There are more but I don’t wish to expose all our laundry at
this particular time).
Anyways, after the movie, Joel
asked his Mom if she would want to have the shot that removed all her “mutant”
powers or would she want to keep them. It
seems like a simple question – after all, aren't these things the source of
many of our daily struggles? Interestingly
enough, both Teresa and Joel decided that there was some value in keeping the
challenges and learning to work through the difficulties they caused. When they asked my opinion, I answered in the
same manner – these are MY quirks/mutations and I want them to stay with ME!!!
A few days later I was reading
the book of 1 Peter in preparation for a lesson when I came across the
following verse:
That
the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that
perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour
and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ. (1 Peter 1:7)
Peter felt much the same way
about the challenges life presents to us in our mortal form. We have been sent here to prove who and what
we will become and the weakness of our mortal existence is paramount to our
progression and improvement. Moroni,
speaking for the Savior, stated it this way:
And if
men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be
humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before
me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make
weak things become strong unto them. (Ether
12:27)
Notice that Moroni only mentioned
weakness in the singular. I believe that
is because mortal life is the weakness we all enjoy together. The various deficiencies that we encounter
are the personal part of our adventure.
The whole Plan ofHappiness/Salvation is predicated on us becoming something more than we were
when we arrived on this little ball of dirt.
One of Father’s ways to improve our chances is to allow us to have
mortal failings that increase the likelihood of our effecting change (BTW, I’m not saying we choose or are chosen to have
certain weaknesses – I believe nature, chance and environment have sway in
those things).
Here’s an example from my own
life.
I have always struggled with
controlling my anger when things don’t go the way I think they should. Generally I am not a confrontational person
so the anger isn't expressed verbally but most people can recognize when I’m a
little ‘off.’ If a serum was invented
that took away that part of my character, more folks might be inclined to enjoy
my presence and the gentle nature of my soul (huge sarcasm here). But that is not what that challenge is to
accomplish. My work is to learn how to
keep those feelings in check, as best as possible, in order to invite others to
like being in my presence (not
factoring in all the OTHER reasons they might want to flee my personal space).
Why does a Father allow His
children to go through all this?
Because He loves us and wants what is best for our Eternal happiness. None of these things are permanent – we will
be resurrected in a perfect form – but they are here for our benefit and
growth. Being a mutant is part of what
Heavenly Father determined would give all of us the best chance to grow and be
strong.
While some things we suffer are
difficult and even debilitating, every challenge is allowed by God because He
knows we will be better for the experience.
It’s letting the weak things of our lives become our strength that gives
us hope for a glorious life after this one.
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