When Brian was a new little guy
we lived in California. Shortly after
his birth he became sick and I was tasked with taking him to the doctor to see
what was wrong. Now, mind you, I was a ‘mature’
father of three and figured I had all things fatherly figured out so this was
no big deal.
The doctors were worried he might
have some problem with his lungs so we went to the x-ray center for some
pictures. I was concerned how we would
get good shots with a wiggly little boy but the nurse assured me things would
work out just fine.
So how do you take x-rays of an
infant? Below is a picture of what they
used!!
A little bigger than Brian was but you get the picture. |
It seems like a good way to do
things……. Until you put the baby in the confounded unit. Being as I couldn't be right there with him
and comfort his fears – I was clear across the room and even disappeared for
the time it took to shoot the film – poor little Brian was terrified and
screamed bloody murder. His little eyes
were pleading with me to come rescue him from this evil thing that had captured
him but there wasn't much I could do. And
being helpless while my little boy was in such distress was almost more than my
young dad heart could bear (it hurts even now
just thinking about it)..
Before the doctors could wave me
in I was removing Brian from the torture chamber, holding his chubby little
hand and trying to calm him down AND apologizing for leaving him with the bad
old doctors like that. He just looked at
me with the eyes of someone who wasn't sure why he had been abandoned but was very
glad to see me back.
That’s been the story of Brian
all the ensuing years. He takes hurt and
pain – emotional and physical – with an attitude of patience and forgiveness
for those involved. Everyone is his
friend and everyone loves to be around Brian. Sometimes I wonder why he keeps associating
with certain folks but then I realize that it is because he is just a good
person and is trying to live a Christ-like life.
Our middle-child has grown up to
become someone very special and important in our lives. Thanks Brian for being such a good son. We love you and your little (well, not so little anymore) family. We love being
a part of your life.
Christoper, Paula, Brian, Becca and Katie |
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