This
past weekend we took a trip to visit Teresa’s parents in southeastern
Utah. Both are in their late 80’s and
suffer from the ravages of time -- especially her mother.
It’s
difficult to watch as those we love age and become different from what we are
used to seeing. Memory loss, physical
deficiencies, and general loss of ability takes a once vibrant, capable person
and leaves them (and us) wondering what
has happened.
My
experiences with Teresa’s folks over the last 37+ years have allowed me to come
to love them nearly as much as I love my own parents. And I grieve with my sweetheart as we watch her
mom and dad change with the advancing years (I have
similar feelings for my parents but I don’t see them as much so the pain is
tempered).
I
mention this because it occurs to me that I have not offered a proper salute to
those who have helped shape the person I have become (I will avoid mentioning those who may have led me astray – don’t
want to pass out guilt this late in the game;-)).
Oh,
there have been some I have written about, like my Dad and Uncle Orson, but I think
what I would like to do is remember (with you) some
of those who may not even know how important they have been to my earthly
progress. So, in the next few weeks (or months if it takes that long) I propose to remember
the “Good People” I have
encountered during my sojourn on this ball of dirt.
Hopefully,
no one will be offended if they appear on my list and if someone is missed (for some mental reason on my part) please prick my
conscience so I can add them in. My
intent is to honor people I love and remember for the help they have given me
in the last six decades.
It’s
like a ride down memory lane – with a cool Popsicle and no hands on the
handlebars.
Thanks
for reading and please let me know if I need to fix anything as I go forward.
(I mean about stories, NOT my personal life – I guess if I was
really nice I would ask for those things also – but I’m not!!! :-).
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